October 2018
Dear Rylan,
I’m so excited that you are turning eight years old because that
means that you are old enough to choose to be baptized. I’m so happy you have
made that choice.
I remember when I was baptized. I was baptized on my eight-year-old
birthday on a Saturday night in a little white church across the street from my
house in Union, Utah. My congregation had all the children being baptized sit
on small wooden chairs and talked to us for a while. I don’t remember what they
said, but I do remember what I felt.
I felt excited and a little scared before I was baptized. When I
was baptized, the water was warm and I felt clean. After I was baptized and put
my dry clothes back on, I walked out of the church into the cold January winter
air. I remember looking up and seeing lacy white flakes of snow falling all
around me.
Even though it was cold outside, I felt warm inside. I knew God
loved me and was pleased I wanted to come home to heaven someday. I also knew that Jesus was my best friend and that if I tried to
live like Him that I would be happy.
When I was your age, they waited until Sunday to confirm me at
church and give me the gift of the Holy Ghost. I felt protected when the men
with the priesthood made a circle around me and put their hands on my head as
my father confirmed me.
What I didn't know was that the man I was going to
marry someday was being baptized on the very same day, January 6th (my
birthday) in a little town called Spanish Fork, Utah. He was a little scared
and excited too. Because we both wanted to be like Jesus, we found each other
many years later. We recognized that we had the same dreams and plans for life.
When he returned from
his mission to Samoa, we were married in the SLC temple. We made special
promises to God. We were sealed for eternity. Pretty soon your mother was born.
Then she grew up and married your daddy in the temple and then pretty soon, you
were born.
Being baptized was the beginning of everything wonderful in my
life. Being baptized is such a tender and beautiful time because we are able to
participate in our first saving ordinance and make our Heavenly Father our
first official promise. You are a son of God, Rylan, and your Heavenly parents
love you very much. They want you to be happy so they have made a plan of
happiness for you to follow so you can return to them someday.
Up until now, you have been a child who is learning, growing and
maturing. You have made some mistakes; everybody makes mistakes. That is how we
learn and grow. Now that you are eight, God thinks you are wise enough to know
the difference between right and wrong choices. Heavenly Father knows that some
of the choices we make will not be wise. Because He loves us, He wants us to
know how to change so we will not be trapped by our mistakes and bad choices.
So He invites us to make a promise to Him and then He makes a promise right
back to us. When we make a special promise to God and He makes one right back
to us, it is called a covenant. Heavenly Father never breaks a promise.
The promise you make to God is that you will remember Jesus,
follow Him and keep His commandments. Heavenly Father promises you that He will
forgive you if you make a mistake or do something that you know is wrong if you
feel sorry and repent. He also promises you eternal life. He also gives you the
gift of the Holy Ghost to help, guide, protect, warn and comfort you.
When you choose to be
baptized you tell Heavenly Father that:
*You want to be a
follower of Jesus Christ
*You will serve your fellowmen
*You will stand as a
witness of God all the time
*You will obey the
commandments of God
God promises
you that:
*You are accepted as a
member of Christ’s church
*You can be forgiven
of your sin if you repent
*You can receive the
gift of the Holy Ghost
*You can live in the
kingdom of God
Everybody makes
mistakes after they are baptized so Heavenly Father gave us the sacrament every
week on Sunday. That is when we remember the covenant we made when we were
baptized. We think about our week, repent of our mistakes and decide how to be
better during the coming week. We think about our Savior Jesus Christ and how
He atoned for all our sins, pains, disappointment and grief. We also think
about Christ’s resurrection and that we can be resurrected too someday.
I hope you will write about how you feel in your journal after
you are baptized. Never forget that you are a child of God and that you can
inherit the eternal life God has planned for you. And never forget that your grandma
loves you with all her heart.
Love,
Grandma Baadsgaard.
